Kevin Solway wrote:You might think there's some subtle reason why men are attracted to women. But in reality men are attracted to women because that is the way our DNA is replicated.
Anything else is all very nice imaginings.
Failure to see the truth of the matter is what keeps people trapped in samsara, pondering over women's ankles.
Well, last first: calves etc. was just an example of how the realms come into daily contemplation of whys, wherefores and most importantantly whats, i.e. what are the real qualities here? What is being perceived in that calf that passion, pleasure ec. can be stimulated? Also, you guys go on about femininity etc. quite a bit, so you haven't transcended the topic!!
Another example might have been: what is it about the worst-managed show-trial in human history (because it was never shown, either the trial or the execution) makes a little snippet so fascinating to so many that one little nine-year old in Pakistan hung himself yesterday?
Now on to the first bit:
"You might think there's some subtle reason why men are attracted to women. But in reality men are attracted to women because that is the way our DNA is replicated.
Anything else is all very nice imaginings."
It is funny. I was thinking a little about this thread before retiring and on awakening and realised that I had not articulated something I had thought long ago; got lost in the back-and-forths no doubt. It was triggered by your suggestion last night that to understand passion in the human realm, I should go to a biologist or somebody who studies apes etc.
Well, according to the material I studied long ago, and to which I still occasionally refer, one of the main qualities or drives of the human realm is passion, whereas one of the main qualities of the animal realm is an absence of such human-style passion, absence of humour and being bound by their genetic make-up far more than is the case with a human.
We have our limitations. Most of us cannot fly, for example, and few of us can speak foreign languages without study, but unlike animals we can build flying contraptions and we can study foreign languages. Our hands and arms can move in no end of artistically expressive ways, our wondrous tales to tell. And we do love telling stories, don't we? Even hard-boilded scientists followed Darwin down the myth-making trail bent on conquering rigidly institutionised animal-realm dogma and taboos which had stifled Europe for far too long by putting in its place another no less superstitious, dogmatic fable, that of evolution, and one that is far more animal-realm in form and content than the one it overcame.
The modern world, as it has been 'progressing', has been systematically breaking down that which was most human realm and building up a new type of animal realm in which productivity and compliance are respected far more than heart, artistry, or genuine contribution to immediate community. Most of the instituations of higher learning are animal realm shams, where people of like limitation cluster together, assiduously training their young to adopt the same flawed supersitions, meanwhile - and not coincidentally - making sure to protect their stream of income and social status as 'experts'. There are no end of 'expert' op-ed writers in the international press now who know absolutely nothing of which they pontificate, either because they never studied and went to Middle Eastern countries and cultures, for example, or because even if they did they are stuck on a US army base hobnobbing with the soldiers, many of whom themselves deal with supply, not front-line ops etc. So here again we have ignorance (animal realm) masquerading as intelligence.
The animal realm is extremely sophisticated. It can build cars and rocket ships, just like it produces the altogether both marvellous and useless peacock's tail.
During the Great Depression in America (for example), all men and women continued to wear hats throughout, a sign of basic human dignity, that we are not just beasts scratching for survival, maintaining territory, but we are humans who live 'twixt heaven and earth, comprising both, aware of both, with abilities, aspirations, dreams, a great need for learning, communication, culture, contemplation and so forth.
That is why I say there is far more to the human realm than abstract formula alone, rules such as cause and effect. Indeed, the Buddha was the consummate human: he broke those rules and transcended karma, or if that is regarded as sacriledge (as it is in some schools) he most certainly transcended all lower and higher realm tendencies. He confronted the limitations of the life form (birth, death etc.) and found a way around them. That is the main 'truth' he discovered, that there is a path to liberation, not the many didactic 'rules' or 'laws' he stated to help people still in chains see that they were chains.
However, he also pointed out that once the boat (of a particular teaching) has taken you to the other shore, you abandon it and move on. The main thrust of the teaching of cause and effect is to show that our imprisonment in animal realm behaviour is illusory.
Well, I am rambling now. The main point is that going to animal realm type authorities to understand the nature of human realm type passion and creativity is not necessarily the best way to go! The entire DNA theory of human nature is quintessential animal realm thinking, in other words, that our behaviour as humans is governed by chemical processes, that our minds are essentially the output of various chemical processes, that we are all Mother Nature's little Frankensteins, cooked up in her cosmic test tube.
No! We have created nature in some sense, as inhabitants create all the realms in which they dwell. We fashion and shape realities as a sculptor fashions medusas or angels out of clay.
A babboon has very little control: when he or she sees those inflamed balloon-like genitals bobbing in the bushes, off he or she goes, ruts, and is done. Humans, however, can be much more artful and discriminating, judging various calves, ankles, movements, speeches and so forth, playing with them, rejecting or accepting them, turning the whole thing into an art form and so forth.
In short: I would not go to a biologist or any other materialist scientist to better understand any of these things. I would go to them to help build better bridges and so forth. But not to appreciate - let alone celebrate - human nature and culture.