Laird,
DQ: It just happens
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Reality is simply what it is
Laird: This is the essence that I have come to understand of the totalitarian perspective: "things just are - get over it; stop asking." From my perspective you seem to be denying that it is possible to draw sustenance from the well of mystery, so to speak.
Firstly, before I address anything else, I object to your use of the word "totalitarian" to describe my perspective. It carries negative connotations and is unnecessarily insulting. It makes the process of pursuing reason and truth sound as though it were a Borg-like activity, which couldn't be further from the case. It also makes you sound a bit paranoid.
Now, when I said that "Reality is simply what it is", I was saying it in the context of another point, which was that Reality has no origin and therefore trying to discover how it originated (which is essentially what you mean by, "Why is there something rather than nothing?") will always be a meaningless, fruitless activity. Note that I wasn't asking you to accept something simply on face value. Rather, I was trying to prompt you into recognizing the irrationality of the question you were asking. There is a difference.
As for mystery, I personally consider being conscious of the nature of Reality to be far more interesting and awe-inspiring than wallowing in "mystery" - particularly contrived mysteries that deluded minds artificially create for themselves, such as those mentioned on this thread.
Ideally, the experience of mystery should act as a spur to deepen one's perspective and gain realization, to stimulate the mind into further rational investigation. Simply wallowing in it for its own sake only serves to turn it into a form of entertainment, rather like having a passive drug-experience.
DQ: In other words, this moment and the beginningless past are the same. There is no "before".
Laird: So then do you conceive of time as an illusion where change operates in the eternal instant? That's the best that I can make of what you seem to be saying; unfortunately it still doesn't make much sense to me: whether time is an illusion or "absolutely true", we experience it.
I'm saying that questions like, "Why is there something rather than nothing?" and "How did Reality come into being?", are misguided because they do not take into account that all of time is contained within Reality itself. There is no "before" or "after" outside of Reality.
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