Carl wrote: Katy/Rory
OK, seriously. Quit that. My name is Katy. There is absolutely no reason to continue to use both names.
At any rate, I do believe funerals are violence against children. They simply cannot understand what is going on before attending and inflicting the strong levels of adult emotion and… ridiculousness… on them is cruel. Children already have a hard time controlling their own emotions. When I went to my grandmother’s funeral at 14, I had no emotional reaction until the final day of the wake (I’m Irish) but found it quite uncomfortable to be surrounded by crying, drunk and angry adults expected to not play with the children anymore but not able to share in the outpouring of grief by the adults. I chose to go to the funeral. I was given that option. But I did not know what I was agreeing to other than that it was “just what people do.†You just can’t make a legitimate decision without information.
The weekend of my aunt’s funeral, I went camping and participated in several martial arts tournaments. I don’t feel that I missed anything. I will probably attend funerals for members of my immediate family, but no others. I still feel the social obligation there. Plus, frankly, when it comes down to it, I don’t mind being the emotional support for my family in that situation. And while I grieve, I don’t feel the need to make a production of it. But my family is my family.
jamesh wrote:
I support voluntary euthanasia myself.
Me too, but that is not at all comparable to advocating non-voluntary slaughter of anyone who is not enlightened.
david wrote:
But people find it easier to accept that kind of killing because it happens unconsciously. It "just happens" as a function of our egotistical and materialistic lifestyles, which most people subscribe to, and thus everyone is able to wash their hands of it.
Well, this sounds like a reason to oppose the Iraq war, not a reason to condone murdering our older generations. The fact is that not everyone has the same goal as you. While you desire Truth, other people value other things. I believe there was a thread here a while back in which Dan, Elizabeth and a couple other people and I discussed the nature or existence of evil. Dan and Kevin’s assertion was that there was no evil, merely working towards your goal/value or against it. Thus I assume that you don’t see old people as evil, but merely against your purpose. You would condone murdering people who have a different purpose than you?
Does this include people whose purpose is to cure AIDS if they continue to have a marriage? People who want to fight to keep your disability pension at a reasonable rate so you don’t get stuck where those of us who are ill in the US are but insist on using the internet to look at porn? We need thought, but we also need action. Killing everyone who has not come to the same thoughtful conclusions as you have stagnates society rather than improving it.
david wrote: At bottom, the killing will only be stopped, or minimized, when people start valuing truth and giving up their attachments.
It would be equally possible (or rather impossible) for killing to be stopped by everyone developing strong attachments to humanity as a whole. It will never happen, but nor will it ever happen that everyone values truth and gets rid of attachments. Nonetheless, it would have the same effect. What causes problems is that there are differing levels of attachments. If a man is unattached enough to be violent towards his significant other while she is attached enough to remain there is a problem. If they are equally attached, he won’t be violent and she won’t suffer. If they are equally detached, she’ll leave and there will be no problem.