Jamesh wrote:I guess in a way this frustration leads one to seek complete non-emotionalism.
Which makes it seem like escapism - these lonely tortured highly sensitive souls? There's some truth in there but also an error, the same error that led Buddhism to mean merely elevation of suffering, tending to the wounds or softening the blows.
What I noticed is that it's
not just that frustration increases with insight (or as the preacher said in Ecclesiastes: "For in much wisdom is much grief: and he that increases knowledge increases sorrow"). The view goes even further when things keep unwinding.
What I'd add is that this frustration, this existential suffering underlies
everybody's actions. Below the surface, the colorful clown masks we
are being effected and conceive of ways to deal with it. And it takes some degree of sensitivity, of failure, or
inability to mask or to divert, before we're able to recognize it.
As soon as one sees how the suffering and frustration is interwoven with emotionalism in a deep intimate way, it comes as no surprise that suppressing or forbidding emotional life also suppresses any true sense of suffering. This is how anti-depressive and mood-stabilizing medication works too. Pain-banners basically.
But the opposite road makes sense too: once suffering and frustrations are faced and addressed, without diminishing them, without avoidance and their
causes are rooted out, there's no reason for emotionalism to endure as there's no base for it anymore.
This last thing is important to stress:
seeking non-emotionalism would be a terrible error, a bit like seeking non-fever or non-coughing instead of health. It doesn't make sense. It's suffering that has to be recognized first for what it
really is, the ignorance disperses and after that everything follows just its natural development with no base for frustration to arise in any serious psychological sense.