I've started a new thread because the discussion was getting fragmented. Feel free to ignore the first quote, which just provides some context.
Kelly wrote: Laird,
Your posts in this thread have been nothing but garbage. Your reckless and wasteful attitude to philosophy has absolutely no place on the Genius Forum.
I think that, you should leave for a while, to get your thinking together. Then, when you have some firm idea of Reality, and can actually contribute to discussions, you can return. Say, in six months' time, or a year.
If you don't take this advice on board, then I think it's fair for you to be banned.
And please use email to whinny at the mares.
Schmaltz-Assassin-Bot.
Elizabeth: Wow - even David has not given suspensions that long, and he's actually an administrator on this site.
Kelly: I think it's precedented, actually. But precedents aside, Laird needs a good six months - a year if he takes some women out ...
Many years more for the mares.
James: Kelly is neurotic. She is too one-sided, and this ultra-one-sideness has been (partly) caused by the same fundamentalism promoted by the QRS. Personally I think her absolute desire for a masculine-only mind will cause her to suicide, somewhere down the track, as it is an impossible goal. While masculinity is required for growth, with masculinity alone, no lasting growth towards a yin/yang centre can occur, so she will always feel a desire to be more than she presently is.
Kelly: I am interested in what I see as a very marked difference between willing and willingness. While most people see willingness as masculine, I see willing as masculine.
Willingness is the will to power. It is a feeling of great pleasure when decisions reflect back a masterful, dominating, powerful self-identity. A being that prevents the chaos of the world from threatening one's imagined existence. To me, this is feminine, because it is completely enslaved by the ego. It's feminine because submits unquestioningly.
Willing is making decisions to go upstream, against the force of the ego's desires. That sort of masculinity is patient, still, reflective, determined, and consciously sustained and planned. It is masculine, because it is conscious, and involves a very subtle form of creativity, and of humour. Perhaps one can call this centrality feminine.
The problem with calling it feminine, for the most part, is that most people are deathly afraid to live without women smiling at them.
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James: After a quick look, it is hard to tell [if Bryan McGilly is "masculinely one-sided"]. Definately masculine - short statements, to the point and so on - but not aggressive, so not overtly masculine (or perhaps not uncomfortable with your masculinity and thus not caused to be aggressive). I wonder if agressives are folks who have more of a constent tug of war struggle with masculinity over feminity -who knows! I'm hoping Kelly and Sue respond because they are overtly masculine females.
Kelly: I can't recall Jim, your response to my explanation of the difference between willing and willingness. It amounts to, what you see as masculinity, I see as femininity (aggressiveness and hot-temperedness). Is this not an adequate response?
James: Well I did have an attempt to reply to the willing/willingness post, but didn't get anywhere. I also had some reticence about what I originally said.
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What are your thoughts on the following....?Kelly: [My post] amounts to, what you see as masculinity, I see as femininity (aggressiveness and hot-temperedness).
James: Well it all depends on where in the circle of plausible attributes one decides to place their perspective in regard to the cognitive generalisation of the term masculinity. You have formed an positive attachment to the QRS version of the term, whereas I have formed a negative attachment to their definition. I reject it because it is not a balanced reflection of reality. The properties they ascribe to it, as shown by the way they use the term, are all positive, completely ignoring the negative.
"I am interested in what I see as a very marked difference between willing and willingness. While most people see willingness as masculine, I see willing as masculine.
Willingness is the will to power. It is a feeling of great pleasure when decisions reflect back a masterful, dominating, powerful self-identity. A being that prevents the chaos of the world from threatening one's imagined existence. To me, this is feminine, because it is completely enslaved by the ego. It's feminine because submits unquestioningly.
Willing is making decisions to go upstream, against the force of the ego's desires. That sort of masculinity is patient, still, reflective, determined, and consciously sustained and planned. It is masculine, because it is conscious, and involves a very subtle form of creativity, and of humour. Perhaps one can call this centrality feminine.
The problem with calling it feminine, for the most part, is that most people are deathly afraid to live without women smiling at them."
Do you see anything positive in willingness, and anything negative in willing?
Think for a moment about what an ultimate definition is.James: Lol, guess what the ultimate definition of masculinity is!
Expansion.
It has to be the final definition, unsurpassable, non-relative, non-dependent.
Absolute, not relative.
Can expansion be absolute if it depends on contraction?
Well, I suppose the first question I should ask is: what is positive, and what is negative? Is there some underlying aim here? Or are you saying that positive things and negative things inherently exist in nature?James: In an imaginary circle representing all human attributes, draw a vertical line down the centre and a horizontal line through the centre. The top left hand quadrant represents positive masculine attributes and the right hand quadrant negative traits, the bottom half represents all traits to which feminine definitions could be ascribed to in their respective positive and negative quadrants. The diagram now is top left masculine-positive, top right masculine negative, bottom left feminine-positive and bottom left feminine-negative.
Your total value-definition of masculinity would be placed somewhere in the top left near the rim and your total value-definition of femininity would be in the opposite quadrant. Draw a line between the two points.
What you and the QRS have done here is skew the definition to one side, based on your value systems.
The second question is the same as that in the first paragraph after the context bit: do you see any positive elements in willingness, or any negative elements in willing?
See, it all depends on your underlying aim. What is that, James?
If you're talking about balance, is that balance absolute and intrinsic in Reality? Or is it a type of balance that is used to reach a certain aim?
So, is your circle an absolutist one, in which the positive is not a value that is relative to some other aim?
Yes, this doesn't matter, because it's a truth by definition thing.James: You might suggest that the combination of all plausible human attributes to which masculinity and femininity could be attached to, are not equal in total effect, so it would be unreasonable to dissect the circle between positive and negative, into equal halves, as masculine traits appear more valuable to most individuals here - but you would be wrong.
What does that mean?The universe is an almost zero-sum game.
What you seem to be getting at here, is that to be true to Reality, one ought to have no bias in one's own psyche towards masculinity or to femininity, or to anything relative.James: Everything is ultimately dualistic.
The problem is, that this approach is biased against taking a preference for one type of character traits over another. It is still relative.
Does it get you anywhere to say that an orange is equal to everything that is not an orange?James: To the totality, causes act in an equal and opposite manner.
Or to say that an apple is a part of the opposite of an orange?
If that's how you want to define masculinity and femininity, go ahead.James: Masculine and feminine in their broadest possible definition refer to opposite actions of the universe, they are the opposite ways in which causes reveal themselves.
But dualism is a logical construct, it doesn't actually exist.
This kind of attachment to "balance" sounds very much like pining for an ideal partner.
As if Reality has embedded sexual traits.
Since this is a repeat of another post of yours, I'll repeat my response,James: Masculine is activity in an expansionary sense (the action starts from within and flows outward) and feminine is activity in an contractionary sense (the action starts from out and flows inward). The interaction of these two absolutes are the process of cause and effect.
(which you didn't reply to)
James: in order for things to be changeable, then ultimate reality must also be changeable. Without some form of change at the fundamental level no thing could arise.
Kelly: A core essence of change, creates a static part outside the core. So then there would be no changing appearances. Which is not the case.
The logical reasoning behind the unchangeableness of Reality is that it doesn't have any nature --- any relativity.
What is constructed as change is really "our minds moving" --- our purposes. Our fundamental belief about Reality. I'm not saying Reality appears as a static thing, when our fundamental belief about Reality comes from the stillness of a Truth-oriented purpose, rather I'm saying the unchanging boundlessness of Reality then appears.
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James: The manner in which Causes change is by continuously being what they are.
Kelly: There are no non-continuing "external" causes by which to measure continuation of "internal" causes.
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James: In the Ultimate Void this change is not expressed. The void is infinite so it has no dimensions, no size, no boundary to prevent it from changing.
Kelly: Ach, you're pulling my leg now. Thar she blows --- the Great Contradiction.
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James: One can however say that the contracting causal force resides inside of the expansionary force - except this is not in a dimensional sense, merely a causal sense- one surrounds the other causally.
Kelly: Sire, I have no need of such a hypothesis.
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James: The expression of this continuous causal change occurs by transferral of causal growth into the finite world. This action is not a form of growth into nothingness, but it is the void in its dualistic form growing inside itself, which allows for the realm of infinite finite existence between an infinite causal exosphere of expansion and an infinite causal nucleus of contraction. While at any time the physical universe is finite (not all there ultimately is), it is infinite in the sense that TO ANY OBSERVOR it will continuously get larger and larger (as the expansionary force expands), as the finite parts within get smaller and smaller (as the contractionary force contracts). This is an illusion however, as believe it or not even the physical world is ultimately non-dimensional – we are only ever seeing common versus non-common relativities that cause the appearance of dimensions.
Sure, I have uncertainties about just how accurate what I’ve said above is, but it is better than saying the logical untruth that Ultimate Reality is not fundamentally changeable. It has to be be changeable in one way (it entire nature is change) and not changeable in another (its process of change never changes).
Kelly: Expansion and contraction require an unmoving perspective of time and space. Guess where that perspective resides?
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Continuing:
Do you actually distinguish masculinity from femininity in any significant way?James: In the circle of human attributes the ultimate definition of masculinity could be represented by placing an "aura" of arrows pointing out from the centre of the circle, and femininity by placing arrows pointing to the centre. Only in this way could one represent the duality involved in all human attributes. In terms of one's value system, then on each individual attribute, they should try and position themselves somewhere on or nearby the lines previously drawn. For each positive masculine action, there will be negative aspects to take into account, but so to will be the case for feminine actions (which too many intrinsically feminine folks ignore).
What exactly is this "centre"?
Do you actually believe the Universe has a centre?
So, is a black hole masculine or feminine?James: Now all the above just relates to the skewing of the definition of the sex terms. It doesn’t fully apply to an individual. All things at times have an imbalance between masculine action and feminine action. A child, a star, all things, may only grow if they have a greater degree of masculinity than the things that surround them.
Do you think an asexual alien with no reproductive instincts would perceive the Universe as sexualised?
Why not just take the striving in the context of a particular goal, such that when it is attained, and only then, that it is, like the bridge used to cross a river, no longer necessary?James: I'm not for a second suggesting that one can achieve a knowledge of reality without strong masculine drives. It seems to be essential. However, I am suggesting that these drives must settle by combining them with feminine attributes, otherwise the masculinity will always cause striving, which will cause suffering.
So what are your reasons for believing that any potential Buddha, striving for Buddhahood, will never be successful, and/or that Buddhahood cannot by definition be sustained?James: One must reform a balance, otherwise one can become a bad philosopher like virtually all those most respected by the QRS - and they are bad only because they take masculinity to extremes, and then expect this extreme level to be sustainable. It isn’t in my book, and unless one has an ego whose main goal is to become some sort of "hero", extreme masculine one-sidedness seems detrimental, over the long term.
No, I have no idea what you're talking about.James: Can you see how the QRS have settled into passitivity, a feminine trait, but the thing to note is that they have settled into this at a higher level because they have used masculinity to build their mind.
Perhaps if you gave some examples.
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