I propose that there is no such thing as an ideal outside of delusion. I further propose that desire is the motivation for any action - right down to such desires as to pay one's bills or brush one's teeth. If one has a bad taste in one's mouth, one's desire to brush one's teeth is increased, and the teeth get brushed even if it is not a regularly scheduled time to do so. One might think one is paying one's bills because it is the scheduled time to do so, but without whatever desire - such as to have water and electricity or simply the desire to be a responsible person - even that would not get done.We live in an age devoid of ideals, devoid of dreams, devoid of hope. The dollar is our God, television our mentor, the newspaper our Bible. Drugs and sex make our heaven. Nobody even thinks of perfection as we strive headlong for mediocrity with workman-like efficiency.
We are dying.
The ideal of perfect romantic love is far from being the loftiest of ideals. It hardly compares with the ideals of true knowledge and wisdom. Yet the romantic ideal is far superior to the so-called ideals of material wealth and power. And like the king in Kierkegaard's parable, we may learn to risk everything in order to make love (perfection) possible.
An ideal is the most wonderful disease, for it makes one totally dissatisfied with life. Only then can one look higher, higher, and maybe . . . begin . . . to think.
The more one desires, the more one sets out to accomplish. If one desires that which is unrealistic - such as an ideal - one sets one's self up for disappointment; but if one desires nothing and resultantly sets out to achieve nothing, one is not disappointed but neither does one find anything worth living for. If one becomes that inert, one might as well be dead.
Having a goal in life - whether for an ideal or for something realistic - involves a desire to reach that goal. Desiring an ideal is desiring the impossible, which is insane. Setting one's goals in the general direction of an ideal draws a path to the highest possible achievement, but it is desire - a trait that seems to be frequently denounced on this forum - that motivates one in the direction of any goal.
One can not even achieve wisdom if one does not desire it.
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