David said: woman give themselves sexually to assholes and the nice guys don't get sex, but instead get to be a shoulder to cry on.
It would seem that the 'nice guy' is more feminine (passive) and lacks the aggression and single mindedness to be appealling to woman.
The 'asshole' has the aggression, but the aggression is totally invested in the attaintment, maintence and amplification of femininity - so, despite he has masculinity, it is the feminine which is master.
Perhaps the nice guys aggression is more on the back burner, his instincts are sound enough to prevent him from wasting his fuel on a goal that he is not even close to being sure of. If he's lucky he is strong enough to turn his attention away from woman and get down to business.
I would say that the more of a nice guy you are, the more meek you are, and thus the more broad thinking you are, the less willing you are to allow your mind to coagulate into a very biased and prejudiced view. In other words, you carry a greater sense of responsibility and have a more subtle understanding.
If you are too broad thinking, and carry too great of a sense of responsibility, then you would become an alien - you would become appalling to unconscious, animalistic people.
Those who fit better into the asshole category appear more aggressive and strong to the woman, and she instinctively equates this aggression with more power.
Kierkguaard wrote:
make a girl unhappy, and then tell her: I did it all out of love for you - and you break her, her mind snaps. Adapt yourself to her and say: I am a thoughtless scoundrel - that she will be able to bear, and she will heartily forgive you. But then she also escapes the dialectical redoubling.
Lets examine part 1:
make a girl unhappy, and then tell her: I did it all out of love for you - and you break her, her mind snaps.
This is an example of how a nice guy would deal with a woman if he managed to become clear minded enough. An asshole would never say something like that, but rather, the woman within him would suddenly emerge and thus he would do the more submissive thing and say.....
I am a thoughtless scoundrel - that she will be able to bear, and she will heartily forgive you. But then she also escapes the dialectical redoubling.
