If a child falls into the habit of cursing all the time, we try to discourage him by admonishments or threats of punishment - particularly if he is not listening to reasoned argument. The child needs to be shocked out of the habit.Sue: David’s idea of replacing “QRS†with the word “wisdom†is a sound one, as it better describes what he, I, and others do on this forum than does “QRSâ€.
Kevin: Actually, my own view is that the idea of replacing "QRS" with "wisdom" is a fundamentally unsound idea.
The reason being that this would simply be a censoring of the natural way people want to use words and language.
If people want to group certain things together using a certain word, such as "QRS", then that is their right to do so - wisely or unwisely - and it can only be harmful to attempt to force the usage of particular words and thoughts on others.
Imagine if someone tried to forcibly ban the word "Australian" on the grounds that Australia contains lots of different kinds of people, some of whom have little in common. It would backfire on them badly.
The QRS label can be considered a form of cursing. It originated from people who were antagonistic towards the ideas expressed on this forum and is most often used as a form of denigration. The intention is to depict the forum as a kind of mad cult and divorce what is said here from the wisdom spoken by their people in other ages.
I think it's worthwhile challenging that perception, both directly (as I tried to do in this instance) and indirectly (through our general behaviour). But as it turned out, the direct approach proved unworkable.
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It was a whim, really, triggered by something Pye said in another thread. She said that if she were in my shoes, she would be objecting far more strenuously to the QRS label because of the connotations of group-think that it seems to suggest, which is a problem that I have long recognized. I agree that it was an ill-thought out decision on my part to enact the censorship plan because it quickly became apparent that it was unworkable on a practical level. But I have no regrets about doing it because it succeeded in making a point.Sure, the idea might be sound but to actually get into the board controls to filter out the word by force, accidentally changing all past posts in the process doesn't seem like mature behavior. It seems petty, irritated, not thought and talked over and possible stemming from an emotional reaction to being lumped in with Kevin at the time. That's what I thought then and is partly confirmed by the stated criticism on Kevin's journey which seemed to be present for a while.
And happily, this thread has driven the point even further. Even Nat is now considering dropping the QRS label. So to my mind, it's all going rather well.
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