M.E.,
Well, that's your judgement of things.
I personally don't believe people are judgemental enough.
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- sue hindmarsh
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Nick Treklis:
Volta:…when you could instead spend your entire life intelligently picking out who to discuss truth with? In my opinion the latter choice is going to be much more fruitful.
Not saying you have to agree with people's bullshit, but sometimes it's better just to remain silent and nod. You just have to recognize people's limitations.
Because you never know who might just be listening that takes what you say into contemplation. It would seem, if you nodded your head, that the person who was just “taking everything in” may think you agree with the others and never know the alternative because you made a judgment call. As for it being a losing proposition, how does one know the inner workings of another’s mind?But as you point out, there is no point with some people as they are incapable of understanding them. (... I ain't gonna preach racial tolerance at the KKK convention any more!). So the logical follow-up is how can we distinguish between those who have the intelligence to be enlightened and those who don't? I guess it's a case by case judgment call, but I've found it to be a losing proposition more often than not.
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Gretchen wrote:Because you never know who might just be listening that takes what you say into contemplation. It would seem, if you nodded your head, that the person who was just “taking everything in” may think you agree with the others and never know the alternative because you made a judgment call.
Every scenario requires individual treatment of it. There is no generic response method when interacting with people.
Experience and familiarity.Gretchen wrote:As for it being a losing proposition, how does one know the inner workings of another’s mind?
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Says he from on high ......
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I'll welcome you if you welcome me!Robert wrote:No.Carl G wrote:Are you the same Robert that used to post under various nom de plumes such as Descartes Horse?
If so, welcome back!
Does the welcome still count? :)
Say Robert, you write some fine English, what are you and your brother doing in France, if you dont mind my asking.
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I feel a little out of place welcoming someone here since I'm not a 'heavy user' on these boards... Welcome, anyway.
Just me, not my brother, live here. British originally (Scottish), been here for 10+ yrs. Why? Cos of some French piece of skirt, why else? Paying the price for that folly now, mind you ;)
Just me, not my brother, live here. British originally (Scottish), been here for 10+ yrs. Why? Cos of some French piece of skirt, why else? Paying the price for that folly now, mind you ;)
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yup, been there done that, nothin's free is it.
But it was a blast while it lasted, eh?
Not to worry. After 2 or 3 years of freedom and spiritual growth you'll feel like a new man.
Cory did!
But it was a blast while it lasted, eh?
Not to worry. After 2 or 3 years of freedom and spiritual growth you'll feel like a new man.
Cory did!
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