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Marsha wrote:
PLEASE DON'T EXSPOSE ME!!! DON'T QUESTION!! LOVE THE TRUTH WITH ALL YOUR HEART AND DON'T EXPOSE ME FOR THE LIAR THAT I AM!!

HAHAHHAAAAHHAHHAHHAAAHhaHHAHHHHAAHHHAHHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Makes me want to throw up. PATHETIC.
What on earth are you talking about, Marsha?

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I'm now not sure it's a good idea to publicly discuss the nitty-gritty of how to become fully masculine. If one values this highly, then one's probably intelligent enough to work it out. For any particularly knotty things, I'll be contacting the forum owners for suggestions.


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Sue: The abused and used underlings don’t suffer in the same way as the men who wronged them, for they only experience life in the most superficial way, and therefore all events are of equal significance.
I wouldn't go as far as saying all events are equal in significance to women and children. Through their attachment to more conscious men, they can see that he does assign different amounts of significance to events. This allows the woman or child to copy his methods and assign varying amounts of significance to individual events or entities. Even though they aren't consciously creating this significance on their own, they still end up regarding events with different levels of significance.
Yes, consciousness creates the circumstances for women and children to regard an event as significant, but because they don’t have any depth of mind, all ‘significant’ events are experienced on only one level – and that is superficially.

You see this in the way women and children become easily distracted. They can go from one thing to another, giving it the same degree of attention and importance, without missing a beat. For example: women and children cry over everything from the death of a beloved person or pet, to crying over a broken nail or toy.
Of course if no men were around to set an example of what higher consciousness is capable of, woman's lower level of consciousness would view all events (with the exception of death) with similiar significance. Even animals like elephants are conscious enough to sense the greater significance in the death of their kin, compared to other events.
Because women, children and other animals are basically unconscious, their mental faculties: such as memory and discrimination, are barely formed. This makes their experience of the world a very fluid one – which is worlds apart from the world conscious beings experience. And galaxies apart from the world highly conscious philosophers experience.

So when a man talks of love or suffering, no woman can even begin to understand what he is feeling, as she has neither mind nor soul.

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Kelly:
my subconscious reminds me that I'm likely to be screamed at, and back-handed, for "talking back".
Forgiveness will free you here, Kevin gave you the answer, it does take work and deep discipline. Listen to what he said, ponder his words.

This is why you challenged me, you thought I might abuse you. Forgive yourself, your parents, and your siblings.

If you grip your resentment you will be propelled by forces beyond your control. Free your mind, not for their sake or because they deserve it - do it for yourself.
"Don't think about it, ignore it, get over it, put on a happy face, the world will never change, we've heard it all before, shut up and go away, etc."
It just does not work does it? You must challenge yourself beyond just logic(though logic is a key). You must rip into your soul with the vengence of a sumarai. Use forgiveness as your sword of power and it will vanquish all demons and free your mind as a gift.

If you do accomplish this monumental feat - I would be honoured to collect your writings and would cherish them for I see in you a keen intellect that cuts to the core of all issues.

If you decide to avoid this 'hard' work, you will be a willy nilly infantuated child seeking the approval you never had. That is what drives your urges - approval and resent.

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MKFaizi wrote:Kevin is telling you to ignore the lies in favor of truth.
No, I'm advising to be rid of delusions by being fundamentally truthful, from the source.

You don't get rid of a weed by snipping-off the odd leaf. You have to rip it out by the roots.
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Kelly Jones wrote:
There's no trick. You shouldn't focus on "deconstructing" anything, since that which you are seeking to deconstruct is an illusion.

Rather, simply focus on Truth and love the Truth with all your heart. No complicated deconstruction required.
This "love" comes from understanding, which comes from having reasoned.
Yes.
Sexual attachment is so deep that the Truth cannot be focussed on purely, as long as this agitation has a hold over the subconscious.
If the mind is too agitated to be directed towards Truth then you need to work on an egotistical level to stabilize your ego before you can do anything.

In that case do the normal things people do to shore-up the ego - but preferably do things that won't have too many long-term consequences. Get a job, get therapy, listen to music, talk to people, play sport, etc.
But it doesn't work for those who need to do tantra
Tantra is an advanced practice. It is not for those whose minds are too agitated to focus on Truth. Tantra is the fast-track for the fortunate and gifted - the noble-born. It is for those who already have great stillness and depth of mind.
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Nick wrote:
Of course if no men were around to set an example of what higher consciousness is capable of, woman's lower level of consciousness would view all events (with the exception of death) with similiar significance. Even animals like elephants are conscious enough to sense the greater significance in the death of their kin, compared to other events.


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Because women, children and other animals are basically unconscious, their mental faculties: such as memory and discrimination, are barely formed. This makes their experience of the world a very fluid one – which is worlds apart from the world conscious beings experience. And galaxies apart from the world highly conscious philosophers experience.
Rubbish. “Basically” unconscious?

It is not men who set the example of what higher consciousness is capable of, but nature that facilitates any such example and its effect/s to whatever degrees in men, women or children.

There is no such thing as an absolute man -- or woman.

I tire of this superficial “Woman” rhetoric when rendered at the expense of Truth.

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Kevin wrote:
Tantra is an advanced practice. It is not for those whose minds are too agitated to focus on Truth. Tantra is the fast-track for the fortunate and gifted - the noble-born. It is for those who already have great stillness and depth of mind.
This is a philosophy forum, right?

As a moderator and a sage, I think you should start a thread on Tantra. Or, do you think it too dangerous for a thinking man's minefield?

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Hm. Well, my knowledge of Buddhism is scant, to say the least. But I am beginning to see that this "philosophy" of yours may indeed breach such boundaries and charge head-on into the realms of religion.

Am I correct in assuming that in order to be lucky enough, privy to the practice of tantra, one must be recommended by a master as a student of it?

So, your philosophy, too, has its esoteric rites and rituals -- not "safe" enough to be discussed on an open forum?

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Hm. Well, my knowledge of Buddhism is scant, to say the least. But I am beginning to see that this "philosophy" of yours may indeed breach such boundaries and charge head-on into the realms of religion.
That which is called "Tantra" in Buddhism is full of rituals and other irrationalities. That's not what real Tantra is about.
Am I correct in assuming that in order to be lucky enough, privy to the practice of tantra, one must be recommended by a master as a student of it?
That's what modern day Buddhists would have you believe.

In reality, all that is required to practice Tantra is that a person is qualified to do so. Bodhicitta, the desire for perfect enlightenment, is an important qualification to have. Ultimately, the individual has to decide for themselves whether they are qualified. In addition, ultimately, the only teacher you can ever have is yourself.

A lot of the material discussed on my web pages is Tantric in nature.

The essence of Tantra is identifying yourself with God/Truth, in the same way that Jesus did. Needless to say, that path is dangerous for those people who are weak or mentally ill.

Tantra is a "secret" teaching, not because the teachings are not openly available to to everyone, but because only a select few can understand what they mean.
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OK. I can understand that.

Any particular place on your website that you recommend an investigation into the subject commence?

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Of course, having an idea of what your website looks like and in the further light of your reply above, I understand the irony in asking such a question. Nevertheless, I'm almost certain you should be able to make something useful out of it. Or, maybe I will.

I'll start by looking for the material you wrote on the steps to enlightenment, posted not too long ago somewhere around here...

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[laughs]

Excerpt from The Hour of Judgement radio show: Buddhism
Kevin: Well, if evil is anything at all, it is ignorance. I can't think of anything else that evil could possibly be other than ignorance, because all bad actions come from ignorance. So ignorance is the fundamental evil in the world.

David: Are you saying a will to ignorance? Or just ignorance?

Kevin: That's even worse. It's bad enough being ignorant but to actually--

Merv: More fundamentally evil than the fundamental evil, you mean?

Kevin: Well, actually wanting to be ignorant is pretty bad. But this too comes from being ignorant. Everybody out there is extremely ignorant. Their whole lives are attachments. They go from one attachment to another, they know none other than attachment. It's not their fault. I'm not blaming them for a minute. It's the way they are. It's the way Nature has made them. It's the way their parents have. . .

Merv: It's certainly true of me.

Kevin: Well, this is what I call evil, so congratulations, you're evil. We all have this devil in us. It's quite natural. I think accepting this is one of the most important steps. It's actually the first of the Noble Truths, isn't it - the knowledge of ignorance, or the knowledge of suffering. Knowing you've got a disease is the first step of getting rid of that disease. So I go out into the world and rather than telling people they're all enlightened, I tell them they're evil.
You know, you really do have some good stuff on that site.

I think I'll spend some real time there.

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Kelly,
My exploration of this topic is exactly about dealing with sexual attachment, which is driven by the biological instinct to reproduce and bond with sexual mates. It's not by chance that such attachments are deconstructed, Scott. Being explicit about the reasoning used by philosopher-types is the whole purpose of my questioning of David...
I sense something beneath your words.
I am clarifying the issues that are rarely discussed on this forum. Typically misogyny is mistaken as men's education, or for males only, without being explicit as to the nitty-gritty of how females become masculine. As far as I can see, Sue has been scratching the surface.
That's all I can see as well. And all I can see of you is that you are wishing you were her, for whatever reason.
What happened to David's projected second part, Psychology of the Ego, of The Wisdom of the Infinite? Why doesn't Sue write about her psychotherapy and thought-processes? Why doesn't Dan write about what it's like to continue to live with a female, and Kevin about his reasoning for and experiences of "marriage" to another? I'm damned if I submit to this lack of honesty about one's existential development on the subject of love.
Because it's scary to preach against something and then be fully conscious of your doing it. When you try to be honest and truthful, it doesn't happen. Honesty and truthfulness must happen to you.
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Nick wrote:
For the record I define nature as the Totality, God, and/or the Universe. More to the point, although evolution seems to create more complex organisms over time, there are still many instances where nature simplifies itself. An example of a of this in the manner we are speaking would be a mass extinction. Complexity is always fluctuating. Also, I still don't understand your reasoning behind the idea of increasing atomic complexity having to be driven by consciousness. Cause and effect, an unconscious event(s), is constantly increasing and decreasing the complexity of all things within nature.
But what causes the unconscious mechanisms of cause of effect to function as it does? you could say it has no cause, but isn’t that highly intelligent? an uncaused body of cause and effect that creates the conditions for consciousness to emerge through matter…??

I suspect that an uncaused body of cause and effect cannot exist without consciousness as the driving force/mechanism.

the purpose of the universe is to produce consciousness, it is a consciousness generating system.

Is it only consciousness that is able to bring into existence an uncaused body of cause-effect as a means to produce more consciousness?
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DavidQuinn000 wrote:Marsha wrote:
PLEASE DON'T EXSPOSE ME!!! DON'T QUESTION!! LOVE THE TRUTH WITH ALL YOUR HEART AND DON'T EXPOSE ME FOR THE LIAR THAT I AM!!

HAHAHHAAAAHHAHHAHHAAAHhaHHAHHHHAAHHHAHHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Makes me want to throw up. PATHETIC.
What on earth are you talking about, Marsha?

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I'm probably out of touch here but I thought she was expressing amusement that Kelly was effing the ineffable in bringing up the fact that at one time you & Kevin & Dan were all living with women while continuing to sneer at others in similar situations. It was pretty funny, though at the time I found it more grotesque than hilarious.
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cosmic_prostitute wrote:But what causes the unconscious mechanisms of cause of effect to function as it does? you could say it has no cause, but isn’t that highly intelligent? an uncaused body of cause and effect that creates the conditions for consciousness to emerge through matter…??
Cause and effect is its own cause followed by an effect which then causes something else to happen, and so on and so on for infinite. To our minds something like conscsiousness does seem quite amazing because when we look at the world around us and out into the darkness of space, we see 99.9999999999...% unconsciousness making up the universe.
cosmic_prostitute wrote:I suspect that an uncaused body of cause and effect cannot exist without consciousness as the driving force/mechanism.
There are plenty of things that happen in nature with no intervention from consciousness. An example would be our planet orbiting the sun causing us to percieve the effect of night and day, which in turn sets of a number of different cycles on our planet. All these events are manifested solely through cause and effect.
cosmic_prostitute wrote:the purpose of the universe is to produce consciousness, it is a consciousness generating system.
I wouldn't go as far as saying it's a purpose, because again, purpose would imply that the totality is conscious. Although it does seem that by producing little specs of consciousness such as ourselves, every so often, gives the totality a way of reflecting on itself through us.
cosmic_prostitute wrote:Is it only consciousness that is able to bring into existence an uncaused body of cause-effect as a means to produce more consciousness?
Cause and effect isn't the body itself, its just the best way to describe how all finite things are manifested within the totality. Something like consciousness is very rare indeed. The complexity of the organism that consciousness can exist in requires an ever so strict balance of elements to the surrounding environment. I would say that consciousness is probably the most unique phenomenon in the universe.
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Leyla Shen wrote:Nick wrote:
Of course if no men were around to set an example of what higher consciousness is capable of, woman's lower level of consciousness would view all events (with the exception of death) with similiar significance. Even animals like elephants are conscious enough to sense the greater significance in the death of their kin, compared to other events.


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Because women, children and other animals are basically unconscious, their mental faculties: such as memory and discrimination, are barely formed. This makes their experience of the world a very fluid one – which is worlds apart from the world conscious beings experience. And galaxies apart from the world highly conscious philosophers experience.
Rubbish. “Basically” unconscious?

It is not men who set the example of what higher consciousness is capable of, but nature that facilitates any such example and its effect/s to whatever degrees in men, women or children.

There is no such thing as an absolute man -- or woman.

I tire of this superficial “Woman” rhetoric when rendered at the expense of Truth.

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Certainly nature deals out different levels of consciousness to each person. I agree there is no absolute man or woman, though it is mostly women who get the short end of the stick when it comes to achieving significant consciousness. The problem is how men make such poor use of any consciousness they have, consequently sinking down to the levels of woman.
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Shardrol,
I'm probably out of touch here but I thought she was expressing amusement that Kelly was effing the ineffable in bringing up the fact that at one time you & Kevin & Dan were all living with women while continuing to sneer at others in similar situations. It was pretty funny, though at the time I found it more grotesque than hilarious.
Well, yes, I can certainly see the funny side of that. But I still have no idea what Marsha is talking about, given that none of us has ever hidden those sorts of things in our lives. I'm not even sure if it was the three of us that Marsha was refering to. It just seemed like an hysterical outburst directed aimlessly at nothing in particular. It's becoming an all-too-common offering from her these days and I'm starting to tire of it.

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Then, I am willing to leave. Permantly. How do I do it?

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MKFaizi wrote:Then, I am willing to leave. Permantly. How do I do it?
If you don't want to contribute to a forum, you simply don't contribute. Everything else happens automatically.
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No. I want to be removed. I want every trace of everything I have ever written to Genius to be removed. I doubt that can happen but I do know that I can unsubsribe or be banned -- whatever it takes. I have written to Dan Rowden to ask him to remove me.

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shardrol:
I'm probably out of touch here but I thought she was expressing amusement that Kelly was effing the ineffable in bringing up the fact that at one time you & Kevin & Dan were all living with women while continuing to sneer at others in similar situations. It was pretty funny, though at the time I found it more grotesque than hilarious.

That's a Classic.

The Antics of Spiritual Men provide us with such divine Comedy opportunities...

It's wonderful.

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Nick wrote:
Certainly nature deals out different levels of consciousness to each person. I agree there is no absolute man or woman, though it is mostly women who get the short end of the stick when it comes to achieving significant consciousness. The problem is how men make such poor use of any consciousness they have, consequently sinking down to the levels of woman.
Would you mind detailing this "significant consciousness" -- how it might manifest; what, exactly, you mean by it. Do you mean wisdom? From there, I plan to contemplate how it is that "mostly women get the short end of the stick." And, from there, how it is that you (qualitatively and quantitatively) differentiate the manifestations "men making poor use of any consciousness" and "unconscious females."

Does the fact that no more than a relatively minute amount of biological males throughout the whole of history could be said to have been enlightened somehow prove beyond doubt that all biological males possess consciousness and are merely "making poor use of it"?

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Leyla Shen wrote:Would you mind detailing this "significant consciousness" -- how it might manifest; what, exactly, you mean by it. Do you mean wisdom? From there, I plan to contemplate how it is that "mostly women get the short end of the stick." And, from there, how it is that you (qualitatively and quantitatively) differentiate the manifestations "men making poor use of any consciousness" and "unconscious females."
When I said significant consciousness I meant consciousness capable of a more in depth understand of reality and the world around us. I would in fact describe this as wisdom, or a spiritual understanding of God. The reasoning behind me thinking women get the short end of the stick would be their lack of original ideals compared to that of men, through out history. Ideals such as politics, religion, science. sports and other things that have shaped humanity. Now although some of these things can be very useful at maintaining the lives and structures of humanity, they don't necessarily promote wisdom or a higher understanding of reality. Which would in turn explain that although these things were originaly a man's domain, women are in fact capable of stepping in and carrying out the duties required, explaining my reasoning behind men not making good use of their consciousness.

Aside from women's lack of original ideals through out history, I also use my personal experiences with men and women to gauge their consciousness. I find that women are generally more caught up in things of a sexual nature. Such as going to great lengths maintaining their appearance in order to gain sexual status, their ongoing discussions about their relationships with men, and extreme attachment to their offspring regardless of the circumstances. I consider this behavior rather primitive and animalistic. I believe all these things are indicators that they are rather mindless and less likely to focus on things of a more lofty nature. Not to say that men don't display this attributes, but I believe women display these attributes more often, and more thourougly when they do.
Leyla Shen wrote:Does the fact that no more than a relatively minute amount of biological males throughout the whole of history could be said to have been enlightened somehow prove beyond doubt that all biological males possess consciousness and are merely "making poor use of it"?

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Does it not? I think the fact of the matter is most men are too attached to power and pleasures of the flesh. Basically things that satisfy their egos. They will do anything to block out reality for fear of their evil ways being exposed. Where on the other hand, for women, pleasures of the flesh and happiness are all they know, making them innocent of any wrong doing. An indicator of this is that generally, when men are confronted with Truth that might expose them they become irate and fearful. Where women on the other hand remain rather stable because they don't see themselves as having anything to be exposed as evil or ignorant. They are essentially, in their own minds, enlightened.
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