I was reading this and I need to take a Devil's Advocate position to kelly's post
kjones wrote:It is the instinct to find a mate to complete oneself, believing that perfection is created by coupling.
do you think that all coupling is motivated to be complete? What about to satisfy lust? What about unattached men who satisfy their lust but don't want to be 'complete'?
At the core of the feminine mind is this delusional belief that a particular ideal form can solve the psychic puzzle. Essentially the error is wanting to duplicate the self.
I don't know if satisfying one's basic biological lust is a desire to 'duplicate' one's self. Many people are just lusty and don't want at all to duplicate themselves.
I'll also expose why sex is most detrimental of them all. Ego's basic aim is to maintain the false self's illusory boundary between it and everything else, at all costs.
that's not why
I want to have sex... I already know about illusory boundaries, but my sexual desires aren't at all motivated to somehow try to fix this. If anything sex removes boundaries.
The constructed self, set up against the rest of the world as if there is an inherent separation, naturally appears vulnerable.
I'm new to this 'self is illusory' concept. Why is the self not seperate from the world and what do you mean by seperate?
So much mad obsession obscures the truth that Reality has no inherent form, or things, or nature, divisions, boundaries, or truths.
Reality has no truths? You just stated a truth here
Ultimate Reality, or the Absolute, can only be everything. There can't be any thing, reality, world, or life beyond Ultimate Reality, because by definition, it includes everything. Whatever is created is Reality. In other words, it can't be grasped or held onto. Ultimately, it cannot be divided up. So chasing self-existence is doomed to failure.
What is 'self-existence' and 'chasing' it? Why is it doomed to failure due to Absolute Reality?
It's impossible to meet the true needs of the psyche with egotistical solutions. It just doesn't work. One has to go all the way and abandon the false self, to be psychically healthy.
too vague. Why is the self false?
Psychic illness, caused by egotism's fundamental truthlessness
why is egotism untruthful?
For instance, many people experience frustration when sexual urges are not met, because they perceive their self-construct lacking power. Sexually expressive people, experiencing power and vitality, are perceiving their self-construct as able to dominate the rest of the world. It's all illusion.
I wouldn't think I'm dominating the world after I'm sexually expressive, that's irrational.
I won't bother discussing other grounds for abandoning sex, such as overpopulation.
overpopulation's a myth
The spiritually inethical nature of sex is reason enough
why is sex spiritually unethical?
Truth is the emptiness inherent in all things.
too vague
The meaning of all words is their emptiness
what?
In conclusion, the core intellectual blockage to enlightenment is egotism
what is enlightenment? I'm tired of this empty circular arguing. "Enlightenment is knowing absolute reality" "What is absolute reality?" "nothing inherently exists" "so? what's the value in that?" "because it's enlightenment" etc....
Sex does more than simply express the belief in the I's inherent being, but goes further and seeks approval for it
Umm, what about sex as a way to lose one's self in someone else?
Sex expresses the eternal need of the I to be completed, which can never happen
Is satisfying one's biological lust a desire to be completed? Even though you can't fully satisfy lust, what's wrong with satisfying it when you need to?
The I is finite, and because it is, cannot attain perfect individuality
hmm in a past paragraph kelly specifically stated that enlightenment is perfect individuality
Only by abandoning this mental construct, can the psyche be healed, and perceived in its perfect, whole infinite nature --- the nature of Reality.
WHAT?