SeekerOfWisdom wrote:All of your options were insults.
e) the honesty is out of a want of real conversation. Honesty of opinion, as opposed to obscure views and imitation, which I find torturous and slow, sheep speech vs free speech, which would you rather?
Examine yourself in that last comment, you gave a bunch of options, all of which were insulting, is it possible someone asked for honest speech so they could hear honest speech? Or only because they are being self-righteous or stupid?
You don't want "honest" conversation. Most of what I have written for the past several posts has been straight-forward and time and time again "you" ignore or twist it. Your latest reply didn't acknowledge my criticism of honesty or the implicit accusation of hypocrisy of the guy who in one post says there are no absolute rules but then in the next says we should be honest.
Examine your comment and you'll see that you're essentially admitting option d but you spin it into your option e. Your ego doesn't want to think or to suffer being fooled so to minimize pain you want others to meet your expectations. You extoll honesty as an absolute virtue and try to shame others for not being honest. You agreeing with me without realizing it is an example of ego's inexhaustible cunningness at unconcious deception.
Ego always finds an escape route. This is also an example of why simple honesty isn't sufficient on competitive Internet forums; minds needs to be pressured with rhetoric to change.
What else is "slow and torturous"? Defecating while constipated. Deconditioning is torturous, no doubt about it.
You can keep twisting what I say to try and insult me every comment, but what is one showing when calling another self-righteous simply for speaking about a virtuous quality like honesty?
I'm showing you what you're incapable of seeing. You haven't justified why honesty is virtuous because you never rebutted my arguments against honesty. Sure, honesty's great for most day-to-day practical situations, but it's often worse-than-useless when battling ego, the most deceptive, dirty-fighting force on the planet.
Anyone who calls another person self-righteous shows a great amount of hypocrisy, they are the kind of people who, upon seeing someone giving to the poor, says " Oh that person doesn't care, he is just being self-righteous". Surely you would rather abandon this attitude?
This is incoherent. If you are being self-righteous it's in a very specific sense regarding honesty as absolute. An ego that holds honesty as absolute can easily use it to power a perpetual emotion machine. If someone drones on and on about honesty and how others should be as honest there's probably a prideful motivation at work.
In your last post you were being honest with your reasons for doing things, examining yourself, this is what I mean by honesty. It requires honesty to honestly examine oneself.
Actually I wasn't being entirely honest. You made a ridiculous claim that I only post here for entertainment but that's not true; my posts exhibit way too much discipline, focus and freedom to be some muppet who can't help himself from arguing. I just stated the obvious (does that make me enlightened!?): motivations are usually multi-faceted and two self-evident reasons, entertainment and affecting you. But you were wrong to pat me on the head for honesty and give me a preschool lecture: I deceptively said I have other reasons as well.
Outward honesty has no necessary relation with inward honesty. Study psychopathy/sociopathy. They can lie as effortlessly as they breathe and some are some of the most clear-eyed homo sapiens on Earth.
honesty + simplicity: Forgetting prejudice and bias + stating ones own opinions and thoughts with clarity ( without riddles and sarcasm)
While you're definining basic terms, define Enlightenment.
If you think mockery and sarcasm is a better route to clear communication than being open with our thoughts, you are going to have a lot of very unproductive conversations. It might work for the other people on this forum, but as you have seen, I am not speaking to you in riddles like Dennis does, so there is no need for your mockery and sarcasm any longer, we have gone past that.
I said cutting humor is needed for certain ego types, not that it's a absolute path to clear communication. It's nothing personal, it's just that certain rhetorical styles counter certain thought patterns. All my conversations are productive for me; if one of my (hyper)textual experiments fails I analyze it and apply the new knowledge in the next experiment.
I pointed this out to you because I had hoped that you would be willing to stop speaking like everyone else on this forum, which we have already agreed is a conversation trap.
I don't speak like anyone else on this forum. I don't speak as a personality but as a warring rhetorical machine. Any resemblance to any other personality is a transient illusion produced by a temporary commonality of tactics. You might be able to affect my output but you'll have to do better than this transparent honesty schtick.
( A trap I am in right now, I would really like to move on)
You can post whatever you want and I will address all the content to the best of my ability. You can just move on and post what you want without rebutting my latest reply, can't you? Or you could move on altogether and not reply. Why can't you do that?