The last throes of life.
The last throes of life.
Existential dilemma
My father is seriously ill in hospital - too old to undergoe much more treatment.
Should I take on another job and raise money to send him on a trip (if he does have any time left in this life) or should I detach further and continue contemplating the ultimate nature of reality?
My father is seriously ill in hospital - too old to undergoe much more treatment.
Should I take on another job and raise money to send him on a trip (if he does have any time left in this life) or should I detach further and continue contemplating the ultimate nature of reality?
Re: The last throes of life.
You should do what is right!uncledote wrote:Existential dilemma
My father is seriously ill in hospital - too old to undergoe much more treatment.
Should I take on another job and raise money to send him on a trip (if he does have any time left in this life) or should I detach further and continue contemplating the ultimate nature of reality?
What is the right thing to do that will not make your soul cry out in anguish?
Do the right thing!
Never give power to anything a person believe is their source of strength - jufa
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If he is seriously ill, what kind of trip could be suitable?uncledote wrote:Existential dilemma
My father is seriously ill in hospital - too old to undergoe much more treatment.
Should I take on another job and raise money to send him on a trip (if he does have any time left in this life) or should I detach further and continue contemplating the ultimate nature of reality?
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Is that even what he wants?
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Perhaps he would prefer it if instead of spending more time toiling away at an extra job, you spent that time with him, discussing the ultimate nature of reality?
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expose him to beauty locally, a walk on a local beach, or nature reserve, or pet store, infinity can be experienced in every blade of grass if one is attentive enough.
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I have four grown sons (ages 25-50). I am fully detached from them and they are living their own lives without any busybodyness on my part. And I am doing the same. Though in regard to their mothers (my exes) it's a different story. I made a vow to myself years ago that I will never be a burden to them or their lives when I grow old. If a person truly lives an unselfish and loving life that is dedicated to the Infinite during his brief visit here on the planet earth his dying should come easy. He may even help to peacefully and quietly hasten the event. But in our codependant world most people never overcome their enculturated self-centeredness and the need to lean on others (both psychologically and materially) in the whole of their lifetime. As a result when people get old, especially, they're very often nothing but a burden to society and other people. While they often die in all sorts of long and drawn out states of disrepair, which keeps the medical and healthcare people happy and their pocketbooks filled to the brim. Someday the human species will learn how to live (and die). Till then we'll have what we have. None of the animal species make such a song and a dance about dying like we humans do. I believe the Amish and the Mennonites on the whole are similarly very accepting and understanding of death.
"He who dies before he dies doesn't die when he dies." (A. U.)
"He who dies before he dies doesn't die when he dies." (A. U.)
Re: The last throes of life.
Let go.uncledote wrote:Existential dilemma
My father is seriously ill in hospital - too old to undergoe much more treatment.
Should I take on another job and raise money to send him on a trip (if he does have any time left in this life) or should I detach further and continue contemplating the ultimate nature of reality?
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"Why do human beings die so miserably, so unhappily, with a disease, old age, senility, the body shrunk, ugly? Why can't they die naturally and as beautifully as this leaf? What is wrong with us? In spite of all the doctors, medicines and hospitals, operations and all the agony of life, and the pleasures too, we don't seem able to die with dignity, simplicity, and with a smile." (J.Krishnamurti)
"Many die too late, and some die too early. Yet strange soundeth the precept: 'Die at the right time!' Die at the right time: so teacheth Zarathustra." (Nietzsche)
"Many die too late, and some die too early. Yet strange soundeth the precept: 'Die at the right time!' Die at the right time: so teacheth Zarathustra." (Nietzsche)
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This.Elizabeth Isabelle wrote:Perhaps he would prefer it if instead of spending more time toiling away at an extra job, you spent that time with him, discussing the ultimate nature of reality?
Just be. Be with him, be yourself. Don't try to be all sentimental. Just be.
Talk about the infinite. Smoke a J with him for christs sakes.