How about we get back to the topic?
The law of identity is used at each step of the way.
A thing exists relative to another thing.
The Totality does not exist as such (relative to something).
But to say that the Totality does not exist as something relative, is to give it a nature that is relative to something that does exist relatively.
Going back to the conclusion that the Totality does not exist in that relative way, one again applies the law of identity to recognise this:
One cannot give any relative nature to the Totality,
BUT
(at the same time as recognising the above,)
One can also not exclude all relative natures from the nature of the Totality.
No, A=A is still being used here. You're confusing the meaning of the A in A=A."Not this, not that, not both, not neither." Neither A=A, nor A=B, nor A does not equal A, nor A does not equal B.
A finite thing is symbolised by an A. This finite thing is specifically related to what it is not (not-A).
A=A (the finite thing)
not-A=not-A (what the finite thing is not), which is again A=A
This process is duplicated exactly with regard to the Totality, where:
The Totality is A, and what it is not (all relative natures and characteristics) is not-A. Again, the law of identity is being used.
A=A (the Totality is itself)
not-A=not-A (all relative natures and characteristics are not the Totality), which is again A=A
But, just as the conclusion that the Totality is not restricted to a relative essence, we have again to revisit this "A vs. not-A" presentation of the Totality, just as I explained above. In other words:
All relative natures are part of the Totality, (this is a new interpretation of the A that symbolises the Totality)
Therefore, the true meaning for the A that is the Totality is all A's (all A=A's, all not-A=not-A's).
The wrong conclusion here would be A=not-A. That amounts to equating the Totality with one of its own parts, rather than seeing that the totality of the parts (every part singly taken as a complete whole) are identical with the Totality.
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