David,
David Quinn wrote:I've never suffered from depression, and neither has Dan or Kevin as far as I'm aware.
Oh really? That's interesting because I just read 'letters between enemies' in which you actually state otherwise:
David Quinn wrote:
If I were to describe the two years since, I would best perhaps say: very bleak and "moderately" liberating. A royal broth mixing in all the elements of despair, depression, terrible depravity and mindfulness, cringing insecurity, long periods of cow-like vacancies - all interspersed with occasional periods of lucidity and rational processes. It seems now that I've just lived through a nightmare, a nightmare of the sort lived through by one of those grotesque characters out of a Dostoyevski novel. It really seems now so horrifyingly weird - the sort of thoughts and feelings one has in the hell realms.
A very bleak period (a nightmare) of
two years? Depression, despair, insecurity?
What else...
David Quinn wrote:
For I am also in a low period; truly am I in the hells. I am beginning to realize more and more what it requires to lead a spiritual life and the idea is scary. After a year of intense thinking and making great ground, intellectually at least, I am in a period of backlash. My ego is rebelling and at the moment I don't have the strength to fight. I seemed to have lost all enthusiasm, all faith in the path, in truth. The hospitality course is overwhelming me. I have begun smoking again and my mind is truly floundering on the surface of things.
I hate society, hate the emptiness and falsity of most human relations, hate kidding myself but my desire for comfort is very powerful and blanks out all those things. And so I am in limbo. The path that society takes with their ambitions, and their petty trivia revolts me to the core of my being. I have no ambitions whatsoever. Succeeding in this world would make me nauseous.
So my mind is dying. I am becoming a zombie - one who hates attachments and hates emptiness.
To me, you come across in the above as a spoiled child with no gratitude.
What else...
David Quinn wrote:
Tracey imploring me to come back to her as she really loved me, etc, etc. I was in a very low point at the time, and I seriously entertained the prospect. But I can't. Philosophy has wounded me too deeply - I can't possibly take a love affair seriously any more. I can truly say, with Kierkegaard, that such things would only serve to increase my melancholy and depression.
Clearly you've had bouts of depression, David. Not very wise to publish that fact on the internet, and then years later deny it. Very foolish.
this next little tidbit if very telling:
When I was physically twelve, I had, up to then, quite happily played with my friends, but then, upon entering the teens, they all changed. My friends grew into adults in their quest for females - whereas I stopped growing. The only thing that kept me in contact with others was sport. But when I gave up sport, the last contact was broken, and I now exist in this never-never world of immaturity!
I am depth and melancholy and unspontaneity personified
and no-one knows how to treat me as such. I fail to entertain them, and they grow quiet and want to move on.
Interesting that you went through such a period of agony and isolation prior to your becoming an enlightened sage. A defense mechanism to protect yourself from getting help and learning to do something constructive with your life?
Sounds to me like we have a case of a very hypersensitive depressed anti-social individual who, instead of acknowledging he has a problem, builds up a fantasy to salvage the wreckage of his self-esteem.