My response would be not wanting to take responsibility. In terms of male relationships with women it means men not wanting to use the energy it takes to win them.Shahrazad wrote:Oh, and please explain what you mean by the Peter Pan syndrome.
It's something I've been thinking about a lot recently, the process of realizing I have no real duty to have things be a certain way, to not automatically try to fill people's expectations, to not be their care-taker. It's been releaving a lot of stress for me. :D
It's weird too, because my not caring about what other people want makes me happy. They see that I'm happy and this makes them happier than they'd ever be if I "tried" to make them happy. But can't think about that too much though, a dangerous road...