Cahoot: Are you trying to make my little brain melt down? We are all herding animals and my view is very few are immune from peer pressure.Cahoot wrote:I don't recall giving much attention to peer pressure. Turns out that I was once an unknowing cause of the phenomenon, and yet it exists.ardy wrote: I would love to end with a cliché but my limited brain won't allow me to write it! Gangnam Style!
Peerless. A = A. Having no equal other than oneself.
Realization of this, paradoxically, coincides with the appearance of equanimity (though paradoxes are merely logical fallacies).
Your paradox goes to emphasise the stupidity of the illusion of equality. Nobody is equal to another and there is always someone smarter, better, faster or better looking than you are. Which is why we always assume we have failed at the end of our lives. We underestimate or overestimate our achievements in old age but it doesn't matter as the ennui swamps our ego.
When I was about 19 I did a little peer pressure experiment on some guys I knew in my local pub in the UK. They would talk over me and rarely listen to anything I said. I came to the conclusion that this was to do with my easy going nature. So I became very 'short' with them refusing their offers to buy a round with 'I'll buy my own drinks thanks!' and replied to any question about what I was up to, with statements like 'what has that got to do with you?''. Within a few weeks they were asking my advice on their silly lives and stopping to hear anything I said. Peer pressure? Anyone suffering from mild autism or a desire to control can generate it.
Always been amazed when I have reacted to peer pressure. I was thinking the other day about my hair and how I have it cut and how it has changed over time. Of course it is only due to peer pressure. Why do we all look the same? It is easy to be different but so few do. I console myself (fool myself?) with the spurious claim that it is inside my head where my difference lies....It's all lies....